Emotional Alchemy
Emotional Alchemy is the ability to transform the darkness of a woman's soul into her superpower
I have a client who spent weeks worrying that her husband didn't desire her anymore since the birth of their child
They had one sexy night 6 weeks after birth but after that her husband had shown no interest
He was still doting on her but he hadn't come onto her in a sexual way since that night
All she could think and feel was the worst..
My body is different-he doesn't want me
My vulva is different-he doesn't want me
I am a mother in his eyes now-he doesn't want me
She told herself over and over that she was worth love
that her body was a miracle
that this is just a moment
she went on focusing on her baby and her new kind of life but underneath it all felt a little bit worthless and a whole lot of anxious
Finally she decided her only option was to seek the truth from her husband, scary as hell as hearing the truth would be
and when she finally took the leap and asked the unthinkable
"Why don't you want to fuck me"?
Her husband told her he had been waiting for her go-ahead that everything felt healed after the first time, he hadn't said anything or pressed her because he didn't want to pressure her, that would be an a-hole move
pheww crisis averted
Emotional Alchemy is the ability to transform the darkness of a woman's soul into her superpower
We are destined to feel it all and we can take it
If a woman deny's her feelings all her energy is sapped trying to cover up the cracks in the facade, like my client who tried to cover up her hurt
When we feel it, acknowledge it, and allow it
we free it
worthlessness becomes compassion, fear becomes curiosity
and the energy it took to hide those perceived unlovable aspects
Is freed up for more important work
Like
*Enjoying the newborn moments
*Quitting that shitty life sucking job
*Asking for that raise
*Creating that me-time
*Finding that lover
*Following your dreams
The ability to feel is our superpower
